She was flying back to our city the following week for work and could meet with him then. This was huge. Becca’s family had been completely united against me since this started. Her mother testified against me. Her sister sent me that text telling me to stop harassing them. Now her sister was reaching out privately with concerns.

Jeffree said this was the first crack in their united front. Family members turning against each other’s testimony was powerful in court. It showed that even people who wanted to support Becca couldn’t ignore what they were seeing. I didn’t know what Becca’s sister had witnessed, but it was serious enough that she was willing to go against her own family to talk about it.

Jeffree scheduled a meeting with her for the following Tuesday at his office. He’d record her statement and potentially call her as a witness if the information was relevant to Lily’s safety or well-being. My fourth visit happened on a Saturday morning. I brought more toys and a picture book about animals.

Lily was already in the play pen when I arrived. This time when she saw me, she actually crawled toward the edge of the play pen, pulling herself up on the mesh sides. She was trying to get to me. The monitor helped her out, and Lily crawled across the floor straight to me. She grabbed my leg and pulled herself up to standing, wobbling a little.

I held her hands to steady her while she practiced standing. She was getting stronger, more confident. We played like that for a while, me helping her stand and walk a few steps before she’d plop down and crawl somewhere else. The monitor actually smiled while watching us. She made notes, but her expression was warm instead of clinical.

When the visit ended and I had to leave, Lily cried a little. Not a lot, just some fussy sounds and reaching for me as the monitor picked her up. The monitor said this was actually a good sign. It showed Lily was forming attachment. She was starting to miss me when I left. That was progress. I drove home feeling lighter than I had in months.

My daughter was remembering me. She wanted me. The bond we’d had before Becca took her was slowly rebuilding itself. My first session with Megan took place in her office downtown. Professional space with diplomas on the wall and comfortable chairs. She had kind eyes but a serious demeanor. The session lasted 2 hours.

She asked about everything. my relationship with Becca, how we met when things started going wrong. My parenting philosophy, what kind of father I wanted to be, my work schedule at the hospital, how I’d balance custody with my shifts, my support system, who would help me with child care. I answered honestly. Told her about coming home to an empty apartment, about the 3 months of not knowing where my daughter was, about the financial strain of legal fees and how I’d picked up extra shifts to cover them. About my mother’s support, and how

she’d been attending visits to help Lily feel comfortable. Megan asked about my drinking. I explained that Becca had made false accusations about alcohol abuse, that I occasionally had a beer after work, but had never had a drinking problem. She asked if I’d be willing to submit to random drug and alcohol testing. I agreed immediately.

I had nothing to hide. She asked about my anger, whether I’d ever been violent or aggressive. I told her no, that I’d been frustrated and desperate, but never violent. That I’d never raised a hand to Becca or anyone else. Megan wrote constantly, but her face gave nothing away. I couldn’t tell if she believed me or if she thought I was lying.

She was professional, measured, careful not to show bias either way. At the end of the session, she scheduled a follow-up for the next week. Said she’d need at least three sessions with me to complete her evaluation. I left her office with no idea whether she was sympathetic to my case or skeptical of my claims.

Jeffree met with Becca’s sister on Tuesday afternoon. I wasn’t allowed to be present because she’d agreed to talk confidentially. Jeffree called me that evening with an update. What Becca’s sister revealed was worse than I’d expected. Keith was controlling about Becca’s contact with her family. He monitored her phone constantly, read her texts, checked who she called.

Becca seemed anxious all the time, different from how she used to be. jumpy, nervous, always checking to see what Keith thought before she spoke. Becca’s sister had visited them in Arizona twice since they’d moved in together. Both times Keith was present for every conversation. He wouldn’t leave the room even when Becca’s sister tried to talk to Becca alone.

The sister also witnessed Keith’s temper. He got angry when Lily cried or needed attention during meals. He’d yell at Becca to make Lily be quiet. Once he’d slammed his hand on the table so hard the dishes rattled. Lily had cried harder and Keith had stormed out of the room. Becca apologized for him afterward, made excuses about him being stressed, but her sister saw fear in Becca’s eyes.

We discussed whether this information was enough to request supervised visitation for Becca as well. Jeffree thought it might be. If Keith was controlling and had anger issues, and if Becca was too scared or influenced by him to protect Lily, then maybe she shouldn’t have unsupervised time either.

Not until she got away from Keith or until Keith completed anger management. We decided to hold off on that motion for now. Let Megan’s evaluation process play out first, but we documented everything Becca’s sister said, and Jeffree prepared to call her as a witness if needed. Reed found more records, court documents from 3 years ago showing Keith had been involved in a custody dispute with an ex-girlfriend.

The woman had accused Keith of trying to alienate her from her child, of inserting himself into the parental role and pushing her out. She’d claimed Keith told her daughter to call him daddy, that he made decisions about the child without consulting her, that he tried to control her contact with her own daughter. The case settled out of court, so there was no final ruling, but the accusations were documented in the filings.

Jeffree was excited about this. It showed a pattern. Keith had done this before. He targeted single mothers, moved in quickly, took over the father role, and tried to push out the biological parent. He was doing the exact same thing with Becca and Lily. The pattern was documented proof that this wasn’t just about Keith loving Becca and wanting to help raise her child.

This was Keith’s established behavior. He found vulnerable women with children and inserted himself into their families. Then he worked to eliminate the other parents role. Jeffree said this was exactly what we needed to demonstrate to the judge. Keith wasn’t a stable father figure. He was someone who exploited family situations for his own purposes.

We filed a motion to introduce Keith’s prior custody dispute as evidence of his pattern of behavior. Becca’s lawyer would probably object, but Jeffree was confident the judge would allow it as relevant to assessing Keith’s fitness and motivations. My fifth visit was on a Wednesday afternoon.

I’d requested the day off work specifically for this visit because I didn’t want to be rushed or tired. Lily was playing with blocks when I arrived. She looked up and her face lit up. She crawled to me immediately and I picked her up. We played with the blocks together, stacking them and knocking them down.

She laughed every time they fell. Then she looked right at me and said it clearly. Dada. My heart stopped. She said it again. Dada. I had to turn away so she wouldn’t see me crying. My shoulders shook and I pressed my hand over my mouth to keep from sobbing out loud. The monitor noticed but didn’t say anything. Just kept writing.

When I could breathe again, I turned back to Lily. She was watching me with those big eyes. I picked her up and held her close. She patted my face with her little hand. Dada. The word felt like healing, like proof that she remembered me, that our bond wasn’t broken, that all this fighting was worth it. My mother had come to this visit, too.

When it ended, she hugged me in the parking lot. Lily knows who you are. She’s remembering. You’re her father, and she’s starting to understand that again. I drove home and allowed myself to cry properly. Relief and joy and grief all mixed together. My daughter called me Dada. After everything, she still knew me.

Becca had her evaluation session with Megan 3 days after mine. Jeffree got a brief update from Megan’s office through official channels. Apparently, it hadn’t gone well. Becca became defensive when asked about why she left without telling me. She’d stuck to her story about needing to escape a toxic, controlling relationship.

But when Megan pressed for specific examples of my controlling behavior, Becca struggled. She mentioned me working a lot, being tired when I got home, not helping enough with Lily. None of that was controlling behavior. That was just normal relationship stress. Megan had apparently asked pointed questions about Keith, how long Becca had known him before moving in, why she’d chosen to leave the state instead of just moving to a different apartment in the city, whether Keith had influenced her decision to leave. Becca got flustered

and defensive. Becca’s lawyer tried to spin it afterward, sent a letter to the court claiming the evaluation was biased and that Megan had asked inappropriate questions designed to make Becca look bad. Jeffree said that was desperation. If the evaluation had gone well, they wouldn’t be complaining about the process.

The fact that they were trying to discredit Megan before her report was even complete told Jeffree that Becca knew the evaluation hadn’t supported her case. Megan scheduled a second session with Becca to explore these issues further. She wanted to understand Becca’s decision-making process and her relationship with Keith more thoroughly. That second session was scheduled for the following week.

Jeffrey said multiple sessions with one party usually meant the psychologist had concerns that needed more investigation. It was looking more and more like Megan’s report would raise serious questions about Becca’s judgment and Keith’s influence over her. 2 days after Megan’s second session with Becca, a letter arrived at my apartment.

The return address showed Becca’s mother’s name. I stared at the envelope for 5 minutes before opening it. Inside was a single page written in neat handwriting asking if we could meet privately. She suggested a coffee shop downtown and included her phone number. I called Jeffree immediately and read him the letter.

He told me to be careful, but agreed I should hear what she had to say. We set up the meeting for that Saturday morning. I arrived early and sat near the back corner where I could see the entrance. She walked in 10 minutes later, looking older than I remembered from court. Her eyes were red like she’d been crying. She ordered coffee and sat across from me without saying anything for a moment.

Then she apologized. She said she was sorry for not believing me when Becca first left. She admitted she should have known something was wrong when Becca disappeared without warning. She explained that Becca had always been impulsive, but this was different. She looked scared now when she talked about Keith. I asked what she meant by scared.

She described visiting them in Arizona and noticing how Becca checked with Keith before answering simple questions. How Keith spoke for Becca when the conversation got uncomfortable. How Becca seemed anxious the entire visit. She said she tried calling Becca last week to talk about coming home, but Keith answered the phone and told her to stop interfering in their family.

Then he hung up. She hadn’t been able to reach Becca since. She looked directly at me and said she was worried about both Becca and Lily in that house. She asked what she could do to help. I told her Jeffree would contact her about testifying. She nodded and said she would tell the truth, even though it meant going against her daughter’s stated wishes.

She stood to leave but paused. She said Lily deserved better than what was happening. Then she walked out. I sat there finishing my coffee and processing what just happened. Becca’s own mother was willing to testify against her living situation. Jeffree called it a major development when I told him. He scheduled a meeting with her for the following week to get her full statement documented.

Jeffrey got word through his contacts that Keith had his evaluation session with Megan. It didn’t go well. Keith apparently spent most of the session talking about himself as Lily’s real father. He dismissed my role completely and claimed I was just a biological donor who abandoned his family. Megan pressed him on why he thought it was appropriate to assume a parental role so quickly.

He got defensive and said someone had to step up since I wasn’t there. When Megan asked about his previous relationships, he became evasive. She asked specific questions about his financial situation and why he moved so often. He struggled to give clear answers. At one point, he accused Megan of being biased against him because Becca had warned him the system favored biological fathers over real parents who did the work.

Megan ended the session early and didn’t schedule a follow-up with him. Jeffree said that was significant. It meant she’d seen enough to form her professional opinion. The evaluation report would be submitted to the court within 2 weeks. We just had to wait. My sixth visit with Lily happened on a Tuesday afternoon.

I’d taken the day off work specifically for this visit. When I arrived at the center, Lily was already in the play area. She looked up and her face lit up. She crawled over quickly and pulled herself up using my leg. I helped her stand and held her hands. We practiced walking together across the room. She laughed every time she took a step.

The sound made everything worth it. I made silly noises and she giggled harder. She was clearly bonded with me now. The monitor wrote notes and smiled at our interaction. We played with blocks and read books. Lily sat in my lap the entire time. When the hour ended, Becca arrived to pick her up.

I watched Lily’s reaction carefully. She didn’t immediately reach for Becca. She stayed in my arms for a moment looking between us. Becca’s face changed. Her jaw tightened and her eyes got hard. She held out her arms more forcefully. Lily finally went to her but looked back at me. Becca grabbed the diaper bag and left without saying anything.

The monitor noted everything in her report. 3 days later, Jeffree called me at work. Becca had filed a complaint with the visitation center. She claimed I was trying to turn Lily against her. She cited the last visit when Lily didn’t want to leave with her. She demanded the center investigate my behavior during visits. Jeffree wasn’t worried.

He said this was projection. Becca was insecure about Lily’s growing attachment to me and was lashing out. The complaint actually helped our case by showing her instability and poor judgment. The visitation center reviewed all the monitors notes from my visits. They found nothing inappropriate in my behavior.

The monitor had documented natural father-daughter bonding and age appropriate play. They dismissed Becca’s complaint as unfounded within 48 hours. Jeffree sent me a copy of their response. It stated clearly that children forming secure attachments with both parents were healthy and expected. The complaint went into our evidence file as another example of Becca’s attempts to interfere with my relationship with Lily.

November turned into December and the holidays approached. I picked up every extra shift I could get at the hospital. I needed money for Christmas presents for Lily. Even though I wouldn’t see her on Christmas Day itself. The custody arrangement gave Becca all major holidays this year. I worked doubles and covered for other nurses who wanted time off.

My paycheck grew, but I was exhausted. One night in the break room, my co-workers asked why I was working so much. I explained about needing money for Lily’s gifts. The next day, they passed around an envelope. Everyone had chipped in. There was almost $400 inside. One nurse I barely knew had donated $100 by herself. She pulled me aside and said every child deserves to have both parents fight for them.

She said her ex-husband gave up on their kids and she wished someone had fought like I was fighting. I went to my car during lunch and cried. The kindness from people who barely knew my situation made me emotional. I used the money to buy Lily toys and books and clothes. I wrapped everything carefully, even though I wouldn’t be there when she opened them.

Mid December, Jeffree called with an update. Megan had completed her evaluation report and submitted it to the court. We wouldn’t see the contents until the hearing scheduled for early January. Jeffree said the fact that Megan had requested a second session with Becca, but not with me, was potentially a good sign. It suggested she had concerns about Becca that needed more exploration.

We spent the next two weeks preparing for the hearing. Jeffrey reviewed all our documentation about Keith’s background. Reed had compiled everything into a detailed report showing Keith’s pattern of targeting single mothers and inserting himself into their families. We had testimony lined up from Becca’s mother and sister.

We had the visitation cent’s reports showing my appropriate parenting and Lily’s secure attachment to me. We had Megan’s evaluation. Jeffree felt confident but warned me that family court was unpredictable. Judges had wide discretion in custody cases. We just had to present the strongest case possible and hope the judge saw what we saw.

My seventh visit fell 2 days before Christmas. I brought all the wrapped presents for Lily. The monitor helped me carry them inside. Lily’s eyes went wide when she saw the packages. She crawled over and touched the bright paper. I helped her open each gift. She got excited about the toys and books.

We played with everything together. She particularly loved a stuffed elephant that played music when you squeezed it. She hugged it and laughed. I read her new books and she pointed at the pictures. After an hour, she got sleepy. She climbed into my lap and laid her head on my shoulder. I kept reading quietly until she fell asleep. The monitor took photos for the record.

These moments were what I’d been fighting for all along. Normal father-daughter bonding, reading together, her trusting me enough to fall asleep in my arms. When the visit ended, I had to wake her gently to hand her back to Becca. She rubbed her eyes and reached for me as Becca took her. I told her I loved her.

She said something that sounded like, “Love you back.” I drove home and allowed myself to feel hopeful about the upcoming hearing. The hearing was scheduled for January 8th. I requested the day off work weeks in advance. Jeffrey and I met at the courthouse an hour early to review our strategy one final time. Megan would testify first about her evaluation findings.

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